Question of the Day: Why do people hate each other after a break up, especially when Love was involved?

Ok well seeing as how i've recently fallen victim to this question i thought i'd take the liberty of answering this for my question of the day

Why do people hate each other after a break up, especially when Love was involved?

Well in my opinion the word "Hate" is a strong word and i think it all depends on the circumstances of the breakup. If the breakup was messy and things were said or done that could not be forgiven or forgotten than I think that may have something to do with the so called "hate" but i do believe however that regardless of any breakup, if love was involved and it truly was legit, despite what either party says you can't let go of those feelings quite so easily. Hate is often just used as a method to fuel anger so the person doesn't resort to falling back in love with their ex lover. My ex and I had our issues that we address to each other(although some were swept under the rug) we tried to work on things but one day we both just gave up on each other and communication between us just stopped suddenly, I was deleted off her facebook, and youtube, and i took down all our pictures together. Now despite our differences and sudden breakup I don't hate her and i doubt that she hates me we just were'nt destined to be together I suppose, and with that said it's just easier this way to end all forms of communication and not have to deal with any reminders of that person, especially if the love has faded. What may sometimes appear as hate is simply just a method of rehabilitation and a chance to move forward with your life. Very rarily do you see ex's become friend successfully, 1 of 2 things usually happens, Jealousy usually occurs or reaccuring feelings toward one another and ultamately both scenarios end messy.